I wanna wish one of my GREATEST friend "DIVAGIRL"  and  to my LOVING sister, ....CONGRATULATIONS in graduating!!! Also shout out to my sister again....I am going to miss you when you down in Daygo now...*tears!  LUB YOU!!!

Okay one more shout out to my best friend...haha..almost forgot to mention....HAPPY 25th BDAY Jeannie! Your ass better get enough sleep by FRIDAY..cuz your butt is gonna get wasted!!! ^_^ You and I and our girls gonna take over the dance floor!! WOOHOO!!!

SOOO.....A Friend sent me this link from www.Match.com ....Ya'll gotta take this...=) Hmmm.....i ponder if this is for reals....? I suppose it is...i guess...heh.....ENJOY!

WHO I AM:

You have a dazzling personality

You're a natural leader. You're smart, insightful, and willing to fight for what you believe in. From what everyone can see, you have your act together. Inside, you're driven by a vision of your future and the search to find love and a sense of "balance" in your life. You live a very ordered and busy life since you're always juggling your career, family and friends, and your involvement in community or social causes. Still, despite being pulled from multiple directions, you're ready and able at this point in your life to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

How unique is your type?

Your personality profile is similar to a number of women your age. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken the test, about 31.7% (or 1 in 3 women) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.

Quirks men notice

Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.  You have such a positive attitude that at times your upbeat mood may irritate those who think you're "too happy" or aren't taking problems seriously. At times you can get so caught up in a conversation that you talk more (and louder) than most people. The organization and time-management skills that serve you so well in your career can spill over into your personal life and at times make you seem controlling and impatient.

Do men like your type?

Notice that 78% of men are generally attracted to your personality type. 18% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.

WHO I’M LOOKIN FOR:

He'll be an enigma

You're looking for a man who can be a pillar of strength and stability in your life. He's responsible, hardworking and successful in his career. You can definitely count on him to do what he says and say what he means. You'll be impressed by how he can see the "big picture" and have a vision of what he wants to accomplish in life, while still having a practical and down-to-earth style. Although he can be charming and outgoing at times, you also will find he has a shy and quiet side. It'll probably take time to get past his reserved demeanor and get to know him emotionally. 

Overall, it's important for you to be with someone who is almost always cheerful and has an optimistic outlook on life. The ideal person you're seeking shares a number of positive qualities with you, including: He's organized so he plans ahead for dates and is always on time.  You can appreciate each other's "dark side" and don't have to pretend that you're happy all the time.

Number of men your type

Men with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken this test, only 6% (or 1 in 17 men) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.

Finding someone like you

You want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. The qualities you find attractive (and unattractive) in men suggest you would certainly be happier with a man who's more like you. No very strong opposites were detected, which suggests that you are most attracted to men who are very similar to you. This is good news since similar couples tend to stay together longer.

Quirks you can tolerate

The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a man who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" man: You can understand his career drive and crises at work, even though he sometimes drags these hassles home. There will be days when you think he's simply "too happy" all the time. Doesn't anything get him down? Is he human?  You can get frustrated by his lack of input on decisions. Typically you're left alone to make decisions about what to do, where to go, etc. But most of the time the balance between you helps things go very smoothly.

Downside of your "ideal"

In addition to his quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, his quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities you otherwise find appealing. So, be prepared if: Because you're most attracted to men with balanced personalities, no troubling differences were noted. Nevertheless, remember that too much similarity can lead to conflict as well, especially when problems call for very different perspectives or actions.

Deal breakers

You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the men you're looking for, but there are types of men you clearly do NOT like. Men's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include: Your responses suggest that you are pretty accepting and tolerant of shortcomings. No major personality "deal breakers" or reasons to rule out potential dates were identified.

SEX

Romantic sex

Good sex is important to you, but it's only one of many ways you connect with your partner. To you, life is about finding balance, and a romantic and satisfying sex life is a key part of your vision.

Among women your age, your particular combination of sexual drive and interests is similar to about 1 in 8 women (13%).

Is he sexually compatible?

You're looking for someone just like you, who values the quality of sex over the quantity. You want someone who would never pressure you about sex.

What's ahead for you sexually?

A good sexual match plays a key role in your "ideal" relationship. Your only risk is to have sex get too comfortable; too predictable. Since you're naturally calm and rational during fights, you miss out on great "make-up" sex! If you can bring your natural creativity and imagination to the bedroom, your sex life will never be boring.